It’s ironic to say this, but you have to have a strong sense and belief in yourself before you can believe in the person you are going to marry. It takes a certain level of strength and confidence just to make it in this world. To be able to believe in yourself, you have to know who you are. Knowing who you are and what makes you “tick” is critical to your preparation for marriage. When you know who you are and how to love and be kind to yourself, you’ll be able to show love and kindness to your spouse. Knowing who you are will help you identify the type of relationship you should or should not be in. If you don’t know yourself, how will you know what type of person you should be with?